Sunday, July 20, 2008

Moving is Expensive

I suppose I am in a different situation than many of my classmates. I've lived at home with my family for the last four years and conversely, I seem to have more and less to move. Some people hire movers, others pack up their car and drive across the country and a third group simply brings a few suitcases and sets up shop when they arrive. I suppose I land in the third category by default. My furniture pre and post college has been the same and won't be dragged across the country with me. My car on the other hand will make the long trek via auto transport. Though it means less time in the car, it also means less stuff in the car. I found a company for a decent price who will let me pack 75-100 lbs in my car, but that's a STRICT limit. Of course with gas prices, hotel costs, food, time and wear/tear, it doesn't make sense for me to drive anyhow.

Next, I keep trying to figure out WHAT to pack. I know I can leave stuff here on a semi permanent basis as I think my mother still hopes I will return after school. (Unfortunately, I have no intention of doing so.) But of course comes the thought, I want ... and it's still in California. I don't recall having those thoughts in Colorado, but I basically took my life with me. There are simplicities that I want/need in Virginia. My iHome and I have become good friends, but is it worth it to hull it with me or should I simply buy a new one, which leads me to the entire topic, MOVING IS EXPENSIVE.

It's not just a matter of what to move, but also what is simply worth purchasing on the other side of the country. I have a list of bare necessities that I need to purchase. For starters, it'd be nice to have a bed, some pillows and a down comforter (I've already picked out my duvet cover). A desk will be essential as I plan to study a bit harder than I did in college and I'm sure a dresser will be another personal requirement. Next comes the little luxuries, though essentials in my life. I love electronics, which can get expensive on it's own. After a year of research I purchased myself a nice plasma TV as a belated graduation present. It doesn't exactly make sense to bring it or leave it and it surely isn't shippable without the original packaging, IMO. Indeed, the distance where you are today should not dictate the schools you consider, but I can't help but wonder if some are slightly better off financially by not having to move.

7 comments:

Oren said...

I hear you. It's expensive both financially and mentally.

Greg said...

You can probably find a great deal on a desk and some bedroom furniture on craigslist. Charlottesville has a huge number of listings. I found two dressers, two bookcases, and a desk for $150. I'd buy a new bed though, but that's just me. When does Darden start?

Ameya said...

Whenever I need to move, I am so very confused as to what to leave and what not to... There's hardly anything I feel like leaving behind. But then some things stay back and after a while you realise that you dont even remember having that particular thing forget missing it!!!
Anyway, hope you can carry most of the stuff you WANT to... You are already on the 'Road to Darden'...

cheerio~~

JulyDream said...

Thanks all! The words are comforting. :)

Greg.. Darden officially starts on August 18th, though I begin a pre term class on August 3rd. Are you starting the MS in Accounting this year?

HappyBunny said...

Yuck! I hate moving. But glad see that you are pulling through. I decide next time I move, I'm going to live like a college student with blow up bed, blow up couch, and boxes for tables LOL :)

Ameya said...

Hey, tried emailing you at the addr. provided on your profile page but that didnt get through... Is that still a valid addr?

JulyDream said...

Ameya - Thanks for the heads up! I'm assuming the address changed when Mac switched to MobileMe, unfortunately, I can't check it out from this browser. But feel free to send me a message at:
paige[at]email[dot]virginia[dot]edu